Only a nikah marriage is valid

Dating a muslim married man

Put yourself in her shoes if you can, you would be very hurt. Fortunately the majority of modern Muslims living in the West will opt to settle for just one, but again this is something that you will definitely need to discuss before dating you Muslim man. Adultery is a huge sin, not even just in Islam but in many religions. Well, this just proves that some are incapable of doing so, therefore dating other women while married would be wrong. At the present time Muslims are not getting the best press, and this is of course due to extremism.

But you may be as

This is something to consider and discuss. Whether it's sex before marriage or his adultery, your current behaviour makes poor Muslims of you both. In fact, it was only yesterday that I Facebooked about it criticizing women who allow themselves to be in such a relationship.

But you may be as surprised as I was to hear that some women think otherwise. What is important then is that you discuss all these aspects of his beliefs and make sure that you can find some common ground before the relationship progresses too far. Faithfulness Faithfulness is taken very seriously by Muslim men and they will be very strict on women who they perceive as having cheated on them. It is a major sin and he is betraying his wife. He should stop his relationship and turn to God and ask for His forgiveness and then work on his marriage.

What is important then

He's not ready anyway, because he is working for his dad. It is likely to manifest itself in ways that will only create more dysfunction. Or if he marries you openly all hell will probably break loose.